Life Talking to kids about El Paso, Dayton shootings? Use the 4 S’s to discuss cruel violence August 5, 2019 Sonja Haller, USA TODAY Comments Off on Talking to kids about El Paso, Dayton shootings? Use the 4 S’s to discuss cruel violence More than two dozen people were killed this weekend in two separate shootings. The 4 S's help parents prepare for explaining the unfathomable.