Life B. Smith’s Alzheimer’s raises question: How to protect your wishes when incapacitated January 31, 2019February 15, 2019 Aimee Picchi, Special to USA TODAY Comments Off on B. Smith’s Alzheimer’s raises question: How to protect your wishes when incapacitated Dan Gasby, husband of lIfestyle guru B. Smith is with a woman as his wife fights Alzheimer's. How to make sure your wishes are met when incapacitated?